30deg pressure angle is Dana 35sp and below.
9" is 45deg except 35sp, which is 30deg, except MW, which is 45deg.
37sp Dana (80) is 45deg.
14b 30sp is 37.5deg (ish)
If Toyota axles are "fragile" I don't think you'll like the results of "stockish" d44 equivalent parts, and would go for the pre-upside-down-balljoint dodge 60 CAD evilness if you really want unit bearings and ubercheap. Gets you normal 60 joints, easy swappable inners with other stock 60 stuff, just need to deal with 35sp inners in the diff, or using Ford d50 inners to hit 30sp and figure out how to get a 30sp 9". Or custom 60 inners to get 31sp, which last I checked were not dramatically more $$ than custom 44 inners.