We met in Dec 1990 working for TIC in Meeker CO, I was 33 and they were just kids. We rented a cabin the idea was she would take care of the place and cook and we split the rent in half, found out her idea of cooking was Hamburger Helper, forget breakfast we had to leave to early in the morning for her to get up. Totaled my 86 Samurai try to make up time ( job was 35 miles outside of town) because they had stayed up all night watching porn, hit a patch of black ice and we ended up on our side in the bar ditch, he got himself RIF right after and I was dependent on others for a ride to work. Met up again in July shut down of the copper smelter in Palais NM. He was working nights and I was days I barrowed the tin can travel trailer they had since they had apartment in Deming, because she was pregnant, and he asked to barrow my pistol so he and another guy could go shooting I didn't think anything about it till I got RIFFED and couldn't remember where his apartment was. Next job took me to CA where oddly enough I worked with his older stepbrother there was no love lost between them so he had no idea how to get a hold of him (Remember this is all before cell phones the the prolifcation of the internet) Next job was in Silver City, I asked the guy who was my job contact if he could either let me have his number, or have him call my mom and give her his. Since he didn't like him he gave me his number, when I called his wife answered told me I should have remembered where they lived and hung up on me!
If it is him I have been looking for him in Deming all these years, even had my nephew in law who works for the PO looking for him, add that to my spelling his first name wrong...