18 years ago I was doing it, 23yo, bought 1st house, stay at home baby momma, but it damn sure wasn't on 40 hours a week or nice cars, it was a fixer upper house 1500sqft house with a carport in a respectable neighborhood, a 4k explorer I had a 5% loan on, 50hrs a week as a journeyman, that held the water line, flipping cars bought new shoes and Christmas presents and got a little breathing room for rainy days.
I think the "good days" were before globalist offshored manufacturing jobs, opened our borders to desperate immigrants, which compresses wages for a blue collar guy trying to get ahead, "well shit, I'd love to bump you up, you're worth it, but I can hire Jose and Jesus for the same price as one of you and they'll eventually figure it out"
Then the immigrants and the welfare people suckb up all the $700 apartments in the ghetto, now the are 900mo, and the decent places that were 950 are now 1200, and your not getting a raise, the border is open, this week you've gotta train 13 Jose's, 7 will make it then they layoff the Joe's....
Then you've got the women's liberation movement, which was, no shit, funded by the CIA (gloria steinem, ms. magazine, look it up
WORK OF CIA WITH YOUTHS AT FESTIVALS IS DEFENDED | CIA FOIA (foia.cia.gov))
Basically sell women a false bill of goods and persuade them to join the workforce, flooding the labor market, there was probably a nice little bump in some couples disposable income for a bit, but then the market is gonna suck up all the extra cash in inflation, and now it takes 2 incomes to buy a house, and the gov gets fatter on taxing 2 checks, kids are raised by the TV and radicalized teachers. It's all by design.
*of course I support women having equal rights, equal opportunity and equal pay for equal work (I just don't think they're happier in the long run)
**of course some guys are able to buy a house and have a stay at home wife, been there, done that, but it damn sure wasn't on 40 hours like was commonplace in better times