DWT
Dirty White Trash
That really resounds with me. A couple of months after we split the sheets all of my friends, family coworkers etc. were telling me they got the old me back. They hadn't seen me happier in many years. I too didn't realize it as the misery crept up slowly enough to really get a hold on me.
I took a vow back then that no matter what I would never ever let that happen again in any area of my life, I keep a close eye on this still all these years later.
Having a niece that I've never had anything passed a generic conversation with tell me I'm a good human and several other young family members tell me straight up they missed having the old me around struck a serious cord.
I am in the same happiness camp too. Not going to happen again, I could tell my last girlfriend was leading me down the same creeping path and cut it off before it got bad.
Eh, I dunno about all that.
The most badass, premium divorce lawyer in this area is a chick. She usually only takes dudes. She murders bitches. Married females in this town tremble just hearing her name.
Fact. The local shark is a woman that scares all other divorce lawyers. I paid to talk to her, I figured any lawyer that gives free consultations probably sucks. Turned out my old neighbor used her in custody court and she said she even scared her in court the way she bitch slapped the opposition around.