Since the stock bolts are 1-1/8 head you can cut up cheapo hitch ball wrenches and bolt those on as retaining tabs to keep the lower bolt from spinning. It's like $25 and three hours of your life you'll never get back.
The plan is to just slip four 1/2 pipes (5/8 ID) over a set of D50 U bolts, bolt it to the beam and then weld then copy the D50 U bolt plate template onto some flat steel and build my arms off those flanges and plate the shit out of the beam somewhere along the way. I figure that should nicely distribute the force around the beam and I can run D50 u bolts and lower shock mounts. Coil mount can bolt on using the same four bolts. Since I have zero idea where my lower shock is gonna be, where I'm gonna run a bump stop, whether I'll use coils or coil-overs, etc. being able to revise the geometry in that area by swapping a simple plate should make my life easy. But I'm building a trail truck, not a race vehicle so my needs are different.
For EMC welding the arms on and just adding saddle gussets to increase the area of beam they tie to is definitely the way to go.
I'm not sure what I'm going to do for radius arm material. I kind of like the idea of square tube since it has better compression and bending strength than round and packs a hell of a lot more steel into an equivalent diameter.
I am definitely going to inboard the radius arm ends though. I think the wheel geometry benefits of doing that greatly outweighs how much it fucks you in the steering department.
I've gone back and forth on knuckles a lot but I think the D50 knuckle will be enough for me. I can always plate it if I have issues. My plan is to do the typical D50 knuckles on D44 swap and then hog out the beam windows as much as necessary to make room for the shaft while keeping close to stock RBV width.