Yes, you can lock your Air Locker in while moving, you just want the tires to be at the same speed so the differential gears are not moving. I've even locked them in a 40 mph (for testing purposes) and have had no issues.
For people who don't get it, I always recommend stopping their rig to engage the locker.
They may, if not, let me know, I'll check to see about getting another run made up.
There you go, the smoking gun. This is the number one reason why people were having problems with the 9" Air Locker.
If you want selectable, go selectable. I think they are the best route, once your learn to drive with them, you can do so much. it's not a black and white open or locked, there is a hug gray area of locking and unlocking for what is needed. Add a cutting brake in there and it's just wow.
Don't let those pics scare you off, there are thousands of those 9" Air Lockers out there running just fine.
Install it (or have it installed) correctly, give it 150+ psi and change out the oil occasionally and you will get a long life out of it.