Long vent but fuck you dont read if dont like it.
divorced from cheating ex wife of 18 years earlier this year, we have a 7yr old son. I knew for some time what she was doing and who she was doing it with, i chose to stay for my son, i was the one taking care of him 80-90% of time for last few years and was fine with that, i just wanted to do best for him and what i thought was best for him. To be honest i know i had a shit attutude because of knowing what she was up and dealing with all the lies and cheating bs.
my plan had been to divorce her this year, got laid off when covid shit started for a bit and that threw wrench in my plans, well not in hers, withen two weeks of me going back to work on temp basis she said she wanted a divorce, well good lets get it done.
She walked away from pretty much everything on her own free will, mostly cause she didnt want things to get out about what she had been up to, even though it was pretty common knowledge i found out later. Divorce was final early aug and she got really bitter/hateful towards me even when only contact we had was regarding son.
Come oct she freaks out telling me the guy she was seeing/had been cheating on me with has got bat shit crazy, i start looking i to him and find he has a very nad past, mutiple prison stays,sex crimes,domistic crimes, restraining orders yada yada.
she gets away from him and things got lot better between us, not ever a chance of us having anything together again but more so just communicate about som amd doing whats best for him.
last few weeks i felt something was up cause she is getting back to hateful shit and she chooses today of all days to call me knowing son and i were doing our xmas stuff today since he goes to her tommorow. Anyways she calls to say that she has gotten back together with the pile of shit....and now im sitting here stressing about my son being around him with all the info i know about him. Already talked to attorney about it all before when there first drama happened and was told nothing can be done to keep my son from him unless there is a report of call involved police between ex wife and the boyfriend. And anything i do to try and keep son from it all will end up with me being the one in trouble and him being kept from me.
im so fucking over this shit, being stressed to point of medical problems because of it, worried for my lil boys safety.
o and if you read this all and want to bitch about my spelling or grammer or whatever....go fuck yourself. Merry fucking christmas.