I used to take a lady from work to her treatments at USF (50 miles away) once a month. I took time off from work to do it. She had a brain tumor and had to have a ride. Her family hates her, she was an insufferable bitch at work and dreaded by everyone. But, when I found out she hired a car to take her each month, I just don't think that is right. Everybody has to have somebody who will pick them up.
Did it for almost two years and she retired. She is still alive. I do not keep in touch. She never thanked me, which was fine with me, I didn't do it for that. Each time, when she was done, i'd take her to Mel's Diner to eat (she had to fast before treatments) and she was a completely different person... as we drove down the peninsula and the medicine wore off, she returned to her usual dark and awful self.
There is someone near you who will give you a ride and be happy to pitch in and help out. It is hard for people to ask for help, but people genuinely want to help. I once drove 800 miles each way to help a friend with his house. Had a great time and really helped. I drove out to San Rafael from Kentucky to paint my brother's house... I drove it in 2 days, painted the house in 5 (big house) and drove back. Got to see a tornado on the way back. Had a great time and my brother still talks about it 40 years later!
Twice I've needed help and I broke down and asked for it and got it... Ask for some help man. You deserve it and someone else will benefit from helping you.