To each their own. Maybe natural selection will take me out next time and you guys can start a thread when I'm dead and say "we tried to warn him". But I have never once in my 40 years of life been in a situation and thought "I sure wish I had a gun right now."
Maybe that's what it'll take to get me to change my mind.....but it hasnt happened yet
I agree completely.
I live in CA. I used to have a CCW, and let it expire. CA has rigorous requirements, and I did even more. On top of the classes, the range qualifying, I did the Law Enforcement shooter simulator and use of force simulator. I did trainings shooting from vehicles and responding to active shooters.
Yet, every single time I've carried, it felt like (and was) a massive liability. Producing a weapon in public doesn't come with accolades and awards. It comes with police investigation, arrests, civil suits, not to mention the immediate danger of escalation that can result in death. I lost count of how many tough guys with guns I've filed cases on when they brandish it in what could have been an easily de-escalated situation.
In your OP, let's say you produce a gun. They call the cops. 2 people's words vs. yours. You have a gun on you. You agreed to 11:30 PM meet time. If they don't have a gun, and you can't articulate very, very well why you pulled that gun... congrats. You're getting a charge. You're also getting sued civilly.
PC 417(a)(2). I can recite the jury instructions by memory at this point. People on your property that won't leave, road rage, neighbor disputes, security guards at Target, etc. etc; I've seen a lot of people pull guns irresponsibly, (even cops) and wind up paying the consequences.
Concealed carry isn't a license to be a modern age cowboy. It's a last resort, when you can't run or hide. I never trained to fire-fight; I trained for tactical withdrawal. I'm saving my family first, and that's it. Even then it's an extraordinary danger, based on the scientifically proven impacts of stress. Sadly, far too many people don't appreciate the enormous responsibility and minimize the awesome restraint that is required to responsibly carry.