We're definitely higher than 450kg/corner. On a 90 with a 2.8TGV, same front bumper and winch setup, rover axles and 35's I had 610kg per corner up front. It's all a big guessing game until I can get it on some scales, but the guys at Accutune are dialed with this stuff and this was their first stab based on the info provided. I'm even supposed to dial in 1.25" of preload, so we'll see how it sits.
Subtract unsprung weight. Your axles and wheels will be at least 200kg unsprung each end.
I don't know who accutune are, but you're heading towards sports-car ride frequencies that won't flex out.
Here are some stock figures. The Brits knew more about suspension 30 years ago than most car companies do today.
2003 Defender 90 weights (stock).
Fronts 175lb/in with 373kg corner weight (sprung)
Rears 225lb/in with 322kg corner weight (sprung).
Payload approx 600kg.
2003 Defender 110 station wagon (stock).
Fronts 180lb/in with 404kg corner weight (sprung)
Rears 330lb/in with 363kg corner weight (sprung).
Payload approx 900kg
Stock defender spring-rates are based around handling fully loaded. So at max GVW the rear sprung frequency is still higher than the front and the vehicle doesn't become a wallowing mess. They're not chosen for off-road flex. You go softer for running low loads offroad or you'll never use your travel.
On my RRC I'm at 495kg front sprung corners with a 4BD1T, dual batteries and Isuzu truck gearbox. But no winch or winch-bar.
Front spring frequency 1.25Hz unloaded. Rear 1.36Hz.