Here’s my 2 cents.
I tend to way overdo shit like this, I had to focus on one aspect of the distilled spirits world, I chose Bourbon because it was my favorite.
I also enjoy a good Scotch, Irish, Japanese, or American whiskey. I like a good Gin or vodka, some Tequila is very good as well.
Fuck a bunch of wine, just no room in my wheelhouse.
If you’re looking for advice on bourbon, I/we need to know what you like. If you’re not sure, my suggestion would be to start figuring out what you like.
Typically the “mash bill” makes a huge difference.
Wheated vs high rye content is a good starting point.
Wheated Bourbon tends to be sweeter, high rye content tends to be a bit spicy or “peppery”.
For my palette, I like the Wheated Bourbons over the high Rye content Bourbons.
IMO the Buffalo Trace mash bill #1 is the best stuff available.
But just like anything it depends on what you like, and there is NO RIGHT ANSWER.
The journey of discovering what you like can be/is amazing.
For me on a personal level, this has nothing to do with getting drunk, I’ve probably only gotten drunk 3 times in the last 20 years.
Hell, if you’re getting drunk, you’re not truly tasting what you’re drinking anyway.
Buying bottles trying to figure out what you like/don’t like can get very expensive. I recommend finding a place that stocks a good selection of higher end spirits and just trying a couple different “pours” in an evening.
If you smoke cigars, many of the cigar lounges also have good whiskey.
Slow down, take your time and enjoy the discoveries ahead.
ETA:
The science behind the recipes can get overwhelming, don’t get caught up.
Just try different things, when you find something you like significantly better than something else do a bit of research and look for something similar.
Tons of technical information available.
Also, there are many “YouTubers” with great knowledge on the topic.
I’ve watched hours of videos, and found guys that seem to have similar tastes. When one of them samples something they like and I’ve never tried, I look for an opportunity to try.
If you want some links to YouTube channels let me know, I’ll post a few that I follow.