Obesity is a disease now? Are you fucking kidding me? Any idiot that took a middle school health or biology class understands what a calorie is, and if output doesn’t equal or exceed input, you’re going to gain weight. Same concept as debt, albeit reversed.
I’m not saying the basic height/weight charts are always correct, or that some people don’t have a faster metabolism than others, but it’s no different than a guy who makes $50k a year needing to spend less than one who makes $250k. You do what you can with what you’ve got.
You see these fat fucks waddling around that can barely move with their 3 year old kid and are tempted to ask them if they want to live to see their kid graduate high school or get married. Now the doc has to ask “are you comfortable discussing your weight?”
My dad was on the overweight/obese line (according to actual charts, which is what most people would label “I could lose a few pounds.”) Dr. told him if he didn’t do something about it he was going to die, sooner rather than later. Thankfully he has for 20+ years now and has met his grandkids, can still walk around and work at 74, etc.
If you weigh over 300 lbs, your fat, end of story. Deal with it.