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I'm following in Kurtuleas ' lead and wanted to start a thread about my daughters adventures heading into a service academy.

First off, I have to say that I'm extremely proud of the work she's done since late October. We were getting ready to start planning for college, and figuring out where she should apply, etc. Of course we've had heart to hearts over the years about my time in the Navy, her uncles time in the Air Force and her grandpa's time in the Army. We were all enlisted and had decent one term careers, then got out and pursued other avenues in life. I am currently a contractor working for the Air Force.

In my inbox in mid October I received an email for an open forum for Jr's and Seniors in high school to attend a session on applying for service academies through a local congressman. You have to receive a congressional nomination in order to apply for West Point, Annapolis, the Air Force Academy, and the US Merchant Marine Academy. The only one that does not require a nomination is the Coast Guard academy.

After attending the session, she was all set, and had decided that she was going to get into one of these academies. Coast Guard, followed by Air Force and US Merchant Marines. No matter what. She was going to do whatever it takes. Mind you, this is an extremely selective process, that thousands of students apply for, have to fight through a nomination process where only a handful are selected by congressmen within their districts, then have to apply to the academies, pass physical fitness regimens and PT tests (individual to each academy) and then hope they are selected for the class of a couple hundred for each school starting that summer.

We were waaaayyyyy behind the curve ball. Most of these kids have been prepping since sophomore year. So she got up, and started training every day. Her grades are fantastic (4.21 avg, class Valedictorian) but not a shoe in. I have had to run her all over trying to get physicals scheduled, hearing tests, vision tests, dental visits, etc. Most of them a few hours away due to only certain places offering them. 6 months of scrambling to get everything done and in by the deadline. We got everything in by March. Phew. Sigh of relief. But then it's the wait that kills you. You just don't know.

A couple weeks ago we got confirmation she was accepted and appointed to the Coast Guard wait list. Shit. She was devastated. She didn't make the first round. She missed the deadline for Air Force applications because she wasn't paying attention to the turn in date. Shit...... out of the running for that one.

Two days ago she got the confirmation from the Merchant Marines that everything passed and she has been accepted, all she has to do is accept the nomination and attend. I got the most excited call I've ever heard from her and my wife at school that day. She made it.

She's waiting to accept the nomination, as she's holding out hope that she can still make the Coast guard (cut offs for wait list are the 15th of may). But regardless, she's excited as hell to Start her own adventure. So we'll know for sure next week which way she's headed. Either New York, or Connecticut.

Anyway, I'm a super proud dad, and excited for her. Also a little choked up because I'm gonna miss my bright, beautiful and humorous little kiddo.

I'll keep the thread updated from time to time, and a couple years from now, I'll apparently have to salute my daughter, since I'll have an officer in the family.
 
Weighted classes i.e. AP or college courses while still in high school.
Huh. School I went to was the same regardless if you were in special ed, standard or advanced courses.
Under 3.0 (75%) was failing.
 
Is the merchant marine academy Kings point?
 
That's awesome

Congrats:beer:

Also, double congrats for going coast guard and merchant marine as top choices. Those smaller programs seem to have happier people :laughing:
 
even the ones spending 8 months a year at sea? hopefully she's ready for that
She's told me multiple times she wants to travel and see the world. I've seen a lot and encouraged her to chase her dreams. Average countries visited in 4 years of merchant marine academy is 18-36. And they have to be hands on with it all, from engineering to deck/flight crew services
 
My brother went to SUNY maritime and is a captain on a drill ship. I believe you have two paths deck or engine. I think the engine/power plant has more land based careers after leaving the service.
 
My brother went to SUNY maritime and is a captain on a drill ship. I believe you have two paths deck or engine. I think the engine/power plant has more land based core
 
If I remember correctly they will leave the school as a 3rd mate.
 
this is why i joined the air force :lmao:
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Well, she has decided to accept the USMMA appointment. She said, I really wanted the Coast Guard, but they put me on the wait list. That means I'm their second choice. The Merchant Marines made me their first choice. So now they're mine. I'm going to accept their appointment.
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I've been doing some reading n and in her first three years she'll visit between 18-36 countries when she goes for her "sea year" tours. That's awesome.
 
Based on money after graduation that's the right choice! My buddy did that and is going to sell his last rental, his house here and move to Texas. He said he can basically retire now but is probably going to get a remote project management job for maritime projects. :smokin:

Congratulations :flipoff2:
 
My Pops was in the Merchant Marines at the last part of WW2 & after the war. He mentioned that even the treaties were signed, the fleets were on high alert(s).

Also, the crew did repairs/replaced the connecting rods in engine room due to stress loads. And scraping off barnacles & painting the hulls.

Congratulations to daughter- :usa::beer:
 
this is why i joined the air force :lmao:

she'll certainly get the chance for travel. lots of cool foreign ports to explore
Back in the day, my cousin ducked me (I was an Army Recruiter at the time) and joined the Air Force. He later said he did it because it was easy, and he wouldn't have to go to war.

I asked him who lied to him, and his recruiter told him he wouldn't go to war, that was for the Army and Marines.

He enlisted for 6 years under "General" (MAGE = Mechanical, Administrative, Electrical, and General were the 4 fields they could choose back then, the job he wanted was under General). They made him Security Forces, where he deployed to Iraq 6 times to escort convoys in gun trucks during his 6 year enlistment. When he wasn't in Iraq, he was in Okinawa... until he was sent to Grand Forks, where he volunteered to return to Okinawa to escape GFAFB.:lmao: Meanwhile, I spent a total of 21 months in Iraq in a 20 year career (versus his 36 in 6).:smokin:

YMMV.
 
Updates! My kiddo graduated with honors, and as a Valedictorian. She was awarded a couple scholarships, which helped with costs for her plebe kit and uniforms. Time is marching closer as I will be flying on the 4th of July to take her to New York for her July 5th drop off at Kings Point. She got all 4 wisdom teeth yanked last Monday to complete her fitness for sea duty requirements.

Today, we were invited to a recognition luncheon with Jay Obernolte, the congressman that nominated her and 7 others for seats in service academies, and I believe they had 30 other candidates that did not make the cut for selection. 4 are going to the Air Force Academy, 1 to the Naval Academy, 2 to West Point, Sloane is the only one headed to the merchant Marines. Jay gave a really nice speech.
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He also awarded the kids a letter of recognition and a challenge coin. He also said they all have to come back to see him after graduation and return a challenge coin of their own.
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To top off the day, we wereable to catch the contrlled detonation of a 56,000lb missile from a good viewpoint outside the base where I work. Many weeks of work-ups from close friends on another program supported this effort and Sloane got fireworks after her presentation that will be hard to top.
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Well, it's reporting day. A little different than my boot camp experience years ago
We flew in last night, had a meet and greet with the families, Sloane and I enjoyed a nice sushi dinner, and toured the campus. We were able to watch the fireworks light up the New Jersey coastline for at least an hour from the pier. The academy is situated right on the water and is absolutely beautiful. This morning we reported in and she had the jitters pretty bad, but I completely understand. I wasn't ready to let my little girl go just yet. I tried to give her a last "Out" if she wanted it, and she told me, No, dad, I'm doing this. Through the gate we went, and shortly thereafter she was in admitting and I won't see her again until parents weekend in September.
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Good for her!

You should be proud - getting accepted into any service academy is quite the achievement :smokin:


And I'm sure you've warned her/raised her right, but make sure she remembers self-protection. As much as it pains me to say it, assault in the academies is still a problem. :mad3:
 
Good for her!

You should be proud - getting accepted into any service academy is quite the achievement :smokin:


And I'm sure you've warned her/raised her right, but make sure she remembers self-protection. As much as it pains me to say it, assault in the academies is still a problem. :mad3:
I have. I have told her not to be alone with any dudes, keep control of her drinks, and trust her gut. And of course, call me if anything ever happens. I'll happily go to jail.
 
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