I have a very similar problem with my TJ. It has a D44 rear axle (non-Rubicon), with JK44 gears, ARB and 35 spline shafts. Mine pukes oil out the end of the axle tubes of all places. Runs down the tire and leaves a puddle on the ground. It gets worse/pukes more when it is run hard or hot. I have burned up one ring gear when it ran dry on a long highway trip. I have good gears in it now, but I'm afraid to drive more than an hour from home, and I have to fill it up every couple weeks.
It is kind of a moot point now, as I am collecting parts for a one ton swap, but I sure would love to know what is wrong with it now. My friend who owns an axle and driveshaft shop is stumped. He says all the parts look good and he has never seen this before.