Sorry, thanks for the reminder!
Here's the drawing, the Jeep portion is the 3.75" bolt circle with one hole offset by 5 degrees:
The 2.68 on the right is the pilot for the flywheel, and the 1.82 thru is for the pilot bearing.
In my case the Jeep flywheel pattern overlapped the SHO pattern, so I had to do a two piece adapter:
Jeep part is on the right; the countersunk holes are to join the two pieces, the flywheel bolts via the threaded holes, pilot locates the flywheel, center accepts the pilot bearing, and the first half locates on that same bore for the bearing.
Going together:
The above one also has the adapter plate which was 1.25" thick, somewhere in there I compensated for the crank/bell offset difference like you were looking for, but I forget what the Jeep one was.
Probably a bunch of irrelevant info there but a hope a lil bit helps, good luck with it and keep us updated! Bunch of us on here with M57 cars so I'd like to see how it works out (mine is a '11 X5d).
Edit: in my case the starter bolts to the bellhousing, so it uses the Jeep starter as well. All the Ford stuff went in the scrap bin.