Santa
Red Skull Member
And you just ran into my long term relationship screening criteria that finishes off the few women who may have run the gauntlet up till then. Financial stability. It seems that most women are incapable of budgets, saving, and planning. Even if they do that they still panic over trivial shit and want to deviate from the plan.
Not sure if Ill ever get married at this rate. Apparently informing women you date that thanks to the government, a marriage is a merger of two businesses and both need to be financially sound isnt considered romantic.
After dating my now wife for a couple years and knowing we were headed twords marriage, we shared $$$ info at my request. Low and behold shes 40k in CC debt. I told her I would not marry here and take on that debt. It took her less than a year to be debt free. At 8 years of marriage she has learned to abhor debt and actually saves now. They can be fixed.