Get involved. At your kid's school, local planning commission, doing volunteer work, working on your place, your marriage SHOULD be what it is.
I think the term is more about armed insurrection and 'having had enough' and making some mass action.
For the most part, it is like exercise, or diet, or any of that stuff... it is so easy to stay in the same pattern and just be mildly to deeply dissatisfied, but not quite being uncomfortable enough to get up and do something about it... that you just accept it.
I overheard someone talking the other day that he felt like the nation (and maybe the world) is in its current state because there are so many people who are unhappy with their own lives and can't or won't do anything about it, so much easier to go online and complain about 'events'....
It is more 'fun' to fly to DC and march on the capital or go to Portland and march on 'the man' than to work on your relationship with your wife, figure out a better job, go fix the septic system. My wife will come outside where I'm working on some project that is 'get it done' and she'll say, 'when you get a chance' and I drop the shit project for the trip to the store in a heartbeat.
I don't think Joe Biggs is a revolutionary, I think he is an adventure tourist.