Apparently Friday the 13th got moved to Saturday this year. Woke up to a text from my dad talking shit about my wife. Ok, didn't respond to it. He asked when he was going to see his grandson (previously hasn't really cared, he likes to see him but doesn't ask to see him), told him if he hadn't started the day off with violence I had been thinking I'd ask him to meet us at the car museum in Tacoma today. Also the wife is out of town today so ik solo with my kid for the weekend.
Lazed around with the kid for a bit longer, finally got him rolling and out the door about 1030 to ride bikes to the coffee shop. Dad starts texting me talking shit about my wife again about every 45 minutes. Told him to knock it off and sober up.
Rode bikes with the boy for a while, went to the pump track and he finally finished his burrito after playing with a buddy for a while.
Dad continues to text me horrible shit, it gets pretty bad and I'm no longer responding to him. He says he's cancelled his life insurance and I'm out of the will. Ok, cool I won't have to fight your creditors for the money. I stop responding at this point because of what he's been texting me after he started to involve my son in his insults and said there was going to be 'a CNN incident if I tried to visit him'. Jesus fucking Christ.
Rain started about 1630 so me and the boy came inside and ran to the store to cash in the two decent coupons from QFC. Got back inside and the boy starts running amok after being good all day, awesome. Dad continuing to text me terrible shit. Now he starts to draw in my recently deceased mom. I told him to not contact me.until he's ready to apologize for all the bullshit he was texting me today.
Made dinner and watched project farm with the boy. Finally got the boy down late and I'm watching more YouTube and having some drinks.
I don't know what to do about my dad, he's been alienating the whole family for years doing shit like this to them, I usually only get it when he's been drinking and I haven't immediately jumped to do his bidding because I've been busy. I think my mom kept him under control a bit, but now that she's gone he's getting increasingly deranged.
My plan for tonight is to get just drunk enough I don't have a hangover tomorrow.