I had 38" XMLs for a bit. They weren't too bad once I groved them, but I had to run them at 4 PSI to get them to flex on my ~4,500Lb. rig and I would still get people commenting that I should let some air out of my tires
The XML is the best Military tire larger than 37" for crawling in my opinion. Just keep in mind, they are cheap for a reason; the government isn't offloading tons of high tread tires for our benefit. Most of the tires were on vehicles that spent most of their time sitting in the arabian sun for 5+ years. My set wasn't too badly dry rotted and the oldest tire in my set was "only" 9-10 years old. If you can, I would try to inspect the tires in person and cherry-pick the least dry rotted/cracked ones you can find.
I put a lot of 303 Tire Balm on them which seemed to help reverse the dry rot a bit. Pretty much every other product on the market, such as Armor-All, actually further desicates the rubber and are for cosmetic purposes only. I was going to try out some Hot Lap 3 tire softener, but ended up parting the rig out before I ordered some to try. I think the tire softener is pretty promising since most racing organizations ban it and have tire "sniffers" to test for it.
Fourwheeler tested some external softener on some old bias ply Pitbull Rockers with promising results, however, they used externally applied tire softener. I don't think the external tire softener soaks and penetrates very deep into the tire carcass/tread. I think an internally applied softener like Hot Lap 3 would probably work a lot better in crawling applications since it would permeate through the entire carcass.
EDIT: I've posted these pictures a few times before, but here's the grooving I did that made a pretty big difference on my XMLs. I used an $80 Amazon tire groover and it sucked :laughing. I would suggest leaving the tires out in the sun for a few hours in the summer to get them as hot and soft as possible while grooving.