Not much need to worry about these threads. The steel floor will be right around 0.274" thick and all but the drain pipe stubs will only be acting as conduits. The gap between the assembled male and female 1-1/2" PVC fittings I tested today was right where I needed it. The fittings really only need to engage plenty of threads to snug up and accommodate the thickness of the floor and maybe a thin rubber gasket between them. Totally doable. This "sandwich" effect doubles as a vibration preventative to mitigate wear and tear to the plastics riding against steel.
I sent a message to the eBay seller that laser cuts the stainless washers. He mentions in his listings that you can message him for custom sizes. I need a 2.35" ID and his closest washer in 1/8" thickness has a 2.031" ID. I have to think of a good method for reaming out one of his larger washers with a 3.003" ID to fit 3.098" OD threads. That shouldn't take much effort, but if I can avoid having to ream .3" or so on two to four more stainless washers at a reasonable cost, I'll do so and support a good seller.
Edit: Figured I'd give it a shot. I was able to barely fit a 4" OD washer in my 4" lathe chuck, and mean BARELY. Opened up the ID by around 0.012" with zero problems. That means I can go ahead and order the 2.031" ID washers and open them up to fit the 2" PVC male threads. Gotta pull the chuck off and check my mounting plate to see if I can fit a 6" 3-jaw chuck to fit the 5" OD washer for the shower drain.