MChat
Resident "Preacher Man"
It really does depend on the church. The last time I moved, my wife and I visited several churches. Everything from bigger churches with thousands of members to churches with only a handful of members. I'm sad to say that in my experience (your mileage may vary) the bigger a church is, the less Godly the people are that attend it; the more comfortable they are with the idea that warming a chair for an hour or two on Sunday is all there is to "Christianity." And the bigger a churches more often have a pastor that is "higher than thou." Heck, one church we went to the "pastor" had his own private entrance, would come out, do his sermon and then leave like some kind of "rock star."It was a serious question. I keep religion close to my heart but dont do church, so I figured I would ask the people who do, how the crowd there really is. Is it made up of genuinely good people, or extreme sinners who are trying to "be a born again christian".
yes, it was a serious question. I dont know the crowd or women that go to church (because I have not gone much), and figured you or others would know the attendees overall better than I could ever guess. Sorry for off topic. The churches around me have a corrupt reputation (money laundering, etc) so I chose to stay away from them for the most part, not putting further effort into finding a good one.
In my experience churches that are around 200 members or less seem to be doing more on a regular basis than the larger churches. But it is also not just about the size of the church, as I have seen small churches that are spiritually dead; and (it's been years) I have seen larger churches that were "on fire for God." IMO, finding the right church is something you should prayerfully consider; ask God to reveal where He wants you to be.
As for finding a wife at one, IMO you have a better chance at finding a Godly wife when you are going to a Godly church. I would however advise looking at it a different way; pray and work toward becoming even more of the man that would make a husband worthy of a Godly wife than you already are and you'll be surprised at who God brings into your life.