I have told you that some people here do not have your best interests in mind, they just want to be entertained by you ****ing things up, you seem to now see that stuff better and that is good.
May I say something to you, ugg this is not what I am good at.
When I first saw the thread I was just mind blown that 10 years after you seemed to be in almost the same situation as the first time we met you. I honestly felt sour that it seemed (perception not reality) that you just were doing the same stupid **** you were doing as a kid.
After some time, and looking at the thread more, I realized that you had actually not asked for help at all, it was someone else that made the request likely after you had reached out to them for some advice.
You ended up taking care of the entire thing yourself using no help from anyone here, you had money, you had credit cards, you had everything you needed to take care of it yourself and that is some HUGE growth since we first met you and I want to say I think you are turning into a solid Man, Father, and Soldier.
I got a bit of **** from some here (steve300) as I was harsh at first but I tell you that I was 100% the same I would have been if you were my son and called me with the situation you were in. At first I would give you **** for getting into that then I would help you to get out of it. I treated you no different than I would treat my own son.
You are doing good, keep pushing forward, slow down on collecting all the stupid old ****, and make your wife and child proud of you.
You are good dude.